Reality Check on “Love Spells”
Love spells, as commonly understood, fall into the realm of folk magic, spiritual belief, or ritual practice rather than scientifically proven methods. While some people find comfort or symbolic meaning in rituals, there’s no evidence that love spells can control someone else’s feelings or actions. More importantly, trying to manipulate someone’s will—magically or otherwise—raises serious ethical concerns.
What to Focus On Instead
If you’re trying to get back with an ex, the most respectful and effective way is through honest communication and personal growth. Here’s how you can approach it:
1. Reflect on the Relationship
What caused the breakup?
Have those issues been resolved or changed?
Are both of you better off apart?
2. Work on Yourself
Focus on your emotional health and personal development.
Become someone you’d want to date—confident, kind, stable.
3. Open Communication
Reach out calmly and respectfully (if appropriate).
Apologize for your part in any issues.
Express your feelings without pressure or expectation.
4. Accept Their Autonomy
If they’re not interested, respect their choice.
Trying to force love—through spells or manipulation—can lead to resentment or worse.
5. Use Ritual for You, Not Them
If you believe in spiritual practices, consider using ritual or intention-setting to heal yourself, gain clarity, or move forward—not to change someone else’s mind. For example:
Light a candle and focus on letting go of negative emotions.
Write a letter you don’t send, expressing your feelings.
Meditate on what you want in a healthy relationship.
If you’re feeling stuck or heartbroken, I can help you write a message to your ex, or guide you through processing your emotions. Just let me know where you’re at emotionally, and I’ll meet you there.